Friday, August 21, 2009
Sunday, July 5, 2009
Table of Contents
Chapter Two – How It All Started
Chapter Four – AMPs Your Local Asian Massage Parlor
Chapter Five – Your Local Strip Joint
Chapter Six – Private Residence Massage Parlors
Chapter Seven – Establishing Your Alter-Ego Using the Internet
Chapter Eight – Internet Wild Side Resources
Chapter Nine – Safety from Prying Eyes and Jealous Lovers
Chapter Ten – International Mongering –
Chapter Eleven A – International Mongering -
Chapter Eleven B – International Mongering -
Chapter Eleven C – International Mongering -
Chapter Eleven D – International Mongering - Japan
Chapter Eleven E – International Mongering -
Chapter Twelve A – Third World Mongering –
Chapter Twelve B – Third World Mongering –
Chapter Thirteen – Tips That Work Universally
Chapter Fourteen – The Science of Mongering
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Shooting Fish in a Barrel...
The problem here in East Africa is not "will I find a girl?" but rather "will I be able to stop finding girls?". The temptation to find better and better ladies is definitely there. The temptation to explore your wildest fantasies is also there. For a single man with a little money and white skin, the hedonistic lifestyle would be very easy here; if you could keep your women from killing each other over jealousies.
It takes some getting used to and I'm sure the adjustment to life outside EA will also be a tough one. However, EA can give one a kind of super-human mind set. I mean, once you've had a supermodel, why can't you have them all? I have a friend in the U.S. that scores with women everywhere he goes. I once asked him how he does it. He told me that when he walks into a room he imagines that every girl in the room wants him and that they are his for the taking. That kind of ego really does help with the chicks. What I'm trying to say is this... If you build up your confidence in East Africa with the knowledge that just about every beautiful girl is yours for the taking, you will take that confidence home with you. Sure it may be a turn off for some women but others will notice your extreme confidence and it will help you out.
I was with a girl the other day who I found, incidentally, on Adult Friend Finder. She is a beautiful girl who has a good job with an airline and simply loves sex. We chatted a lot before meeting. Our chats consisted of some flirting as well as some explicit sexual content. When I met her, I was surprised because you would have thought she was just a good looking airline professional. Our lunch consisted of small talk and not really any sexual innuendo. She traveled to my city later that month and let me know she was around. We agreed to meet in my office which, fortunately, has the convenience of being very private. 5 minutes after sitting on my office couch, she was reaching for my zipper. 20 minutes later (or was it 3 minutes later LOL) we were relaxing naked in post-coital bliss. This is a good looking girl with a great body who I chatted with online and bought lunch for once. No money exchanged hands. She likes sex...I like sex. Will we do it again? Maybe.
Yesterday I went into a casino and met a beautiful girl behind the information counter. There is no doubt in my mind that she would (a) go on a date with me and (b) sleep with me on that very date. Am I correct in my egotistical fantasy? Probably. I didn't try because...well...remember the question above? Will I be able to stop finding girls? I have whittled my girls down to 3. One solid girlfriend that I love. One masseuse that will give me full service anytime (and incidentally my first African girl). And one girl who when she makes love to me, makes me forget about sex for two weeks...she's the best. If I lost any of the three it would take me about 2 minutes and a couple of SMSes and phone calls to replace them. Well maybe that's an exaggeration. None of these three could be replaced completely but I'm sure over time...
Monday, April 6, 2009
Failure at HOME!
These girls are something else. For some reason they think they are the best at what they do and they are really just looking to shake down a guy for cash. Both beautiful black gals said they needed help with rent. That's fine with me. These girls were pretty enough to spend a few bucks on. Maybe even $200 to do these women. But when the "rate" is, "Help me with my $850 rent." or "I need to buy a new Peekapoo for $2000" I'm dumfounded! If I had $1000 for the purposes of sensual entertainment, let me tell you the girl is going to do some unbelievable things. I know these girls would have just gone through the motions and it would have been a waste.
About 1/2 way through my visit I decided to go back to Africa and be spoiled by some supermodel-like girls there. In fact, one that I've been toying with is a stone cold fox and she just agreed to see me for about $60. That's very high but she's really and truly drop dead gorgeous.
I have to tell you another thing I discovered in my height of sexual frustration. These webcam sites are actually pretty cool for some autoerotic stimulation (if that's what you're left with). One site in particular, www.myfreecams.com is a good one and reasonable. You can buy 200 tokens for $20 and the girls will do a LOT for small tips of say 10-20 tokens. The funny thiong about this site is there must be 30% new mothers on it. If you like breast milk squirting out of supple young titties, this is the place. Check out XPornstarX for a super black chick with a hot bod and milk too. Call me sick but that white white milk coming from those black black tits is a real turn on. If you think, "That's sick dude!" try it out. I think you'll find some real erotic element to lactation from a hot babe. The other site I found (and there are hundreds of them) is www.naughtyasiancams.com This site does not require payment and you get more free shows here than anywhere. I mean penetration without payment?
So...in a crunch...don't do anything stupid...just stay home and watch hot black, asian, Russian, etc. chicks on the old laptop. And don't forget to try "SnagIt" for video capture. Why bother to get those free shows if you can't record them for future use? I wonder if I can post these to YouTube or YouPorn or something? Hmmmm?
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Conclusion




CONCLUSION:
I couldn’t leave you just that picture of the beautiful pregnant nude to conclude this book. It would send the wrong message. I want you to be careful but I don’t want you to be scared away from what will certainly be a new and erotic adventure. I’m not sure what you are looking for as you read this book. Maybe it’s a one-night-stand with no-strings-attached (ONS with NSA)? Maybe it’s a girl on the side to have some fun with when you are traveling abroad (no pun intended)? Maybe it’s a long term girlfriend or future wife? Maybe you’re looking for that certain “thing” you’re not getting at home? In any case, I hope this book will help you along your path.
What can I say in conclusion to this book? I guess I’ll take the opportunity to re-emphasize some important points made in the previous chapters. Sex is available anywhere and it just takes a good, well-trained eye to find it. Whether you pay for it directly or indirectly it’s out there waiting to be tapped into (pun intended). If nothing else, I hope this book makes you more aware of your surroundings as you drive around your neighborhood and as you fly around the globe. When I started off on this adventure, I was young and inexperienced and very naive. I soon discovered that almost anything is for sale given a certain price. When the guys that treated us to a great karaoke night in Kofu City, Japan visited the Silicon Valley, we had to really scramble to set something up for them. We hired a girl from the New Century Theater in San Francisco to “strip” for our impromptu party. We were soon using toys on her in the middle of my friend’s apartment. It was a great party and one of our most important Japanese guests left with a memento of his trip…the stripper’s panties. He paid over $100 for them (in Yen) and then promptly mailed them back to my friend when he returned to Japan. We kept that hot little blonde’s number on speed dial for a long time. Only when she settled down and got married did we stop calling her to “strip” for us.
I had a friend that sounded a bit bigoted when he would say, “All (fill in the ethnicity) girls are for sale.” It wasn’t 100% true then and it isn’t 100% true now. However, depending on where in the world you are, it could be more true than false. Take my Nordstrom girl in Nairobi for example. She wouldn’t look twice at me in the U.S. but she liked the idea of having me as a boyfriend in Kenya. Are all African women for sale? Absolutely not. But there are certainly more beautiful women available in Africa for a price. They are not necessarily prostitutes, they’re just opportunists. The same goes for China and the Philippines and a number of other countries I’ve discussed in previous chapters.
What’s my point? Just be aware of your surroundings and evaluate your chances. Remember to plan your encounters ahead of time as much as possible. It makes for a better experience. When planning, have a couple of backups just in case. Don’t stand girls up. Just be honest with them. Tell them you are super busy and will see them if it is at all possible. If they aren’t understanding, they’re not the right ones anyway. Remember, sometimes you have to go home horny. That’s better than the alternative of a bad or risky sexual encounter.
Most of the time though, you’ll go back home (or to the hotel) with a smile on your face. Try your best to be kind and generous and respect the girls you meet out there. It can’t be easy work and remember that not all clients or boyfriends are as good looking as you are. Treat them as if they are a date you are trying to impress and you can’t go wrong. And when you encounter something or someone not so great, take it to the internet forums…not the streets. Likewise, when you encounter something so great that your head is swimming, take it to the forums and share with the rest of us…when you are ready to share that is.
Remember to be safe out there. If a place looks dangerous, it probably is. If a girl looks dangerous, she probably is. And…use a condom until you are at such a point where you can have tests done and you are guaranteed an exclusive relationship.
Enough said. What has this book accomplished? Some morning you’ll awaken on clean white sheets in a large comfortable bed. You’ll hear the muffled sound of waves crashing on the shoreline. There’s a beautiful girl curled up next to you. Her breasts are pressed against your back. Her leg is draped over yours and you feel her warmth and wetness on your thigh. Her wild hair is all about your face and you smell the sweet aroma of jasmine and honey. When you stir, she opens her eyes. They are sleepy but still as beautiful as you remember them from last night. They tell the story of an erotic, exotic, and sensual night of passion. She smiles and then quietly giggles while kissing you on the cheek. Nothing is said but her eyes continue to tease as she disappears beneath the sheets kissing you on the way down…down…down. Now you have truly found sex anywhere.
THE END
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Chapter Fifteen: Stay Safe Out There!



Stay Safe Out There!
I would be remiss to write a book like this without some “safe and sane” advice. Please be safe in your sexual ventures. Use a condom! Have your girlfriend tested for STDs. Generally…be smart. There is a ton of information on this stuff out there but I’ll touch on a couple important points…and make it quick.
STDs - There’s nothing that pisses me off more than a report from SFRedbook or WSG where the guy is bragging about talking the girl into sex without a condom. Blowjobs are one thing but intercourse is another. I don’t want your bugs and you don’t want mine! If you have bare back sex with a girl and write about it, there’s a girl I will avoid like the plague. Even if you’re an upstanding, clean, drug free dude…if you talked her into it then some other not so clean dude can too. Protect yourself and others from STDs, HIV/AIDS, etc. If you’ve never read about the guy they think is AIDS patient zero (the guy who spread it all over North America) take some time to. Don’t be that guy!
DATY - As far as you DATY (dine at the Y) guys, we’ll argue all day but I still don’t get it. Who’s paying who here? And why do I want to slurp up the last guy’s sweat and pubes? Like I said, you DATY guys will berate me no end for this but getting herpes in your mouth from her pussy is a lot more likely than her catching anything from a bare back blowjob on you. I understand that it’s very tempting and these girls can look squeaky clean and smell delicious…it’s just not for me. Besides, when you get herpes in your mouth…your next conquest gets herpes in her mouth…then I risk getting it on my dick and so on…and so on
Condom Hiding - The whole point of using a condom for a blowjob is to protect each of you from contracting an STD. There’s a practice that prostitutes and massage girls use. They never mention the condom but place it in their mouth and surreptitiously glide it over your cock with their mouth. Doesn’t that completely defeat the point? What are you protecting yourself from? Her saliva, right? So as soon as she puts it in her mouth, you’re at risk even if she isn’t. My solution is to bring my own condom, give it to her and ask her to NOT put it on with her mouth. My condom should go on my dick in a sterile way. You don’t have to bring your own but let her know you know its coming and she doesn’t need to hide it from you.
Pregnancy - Finally, don’t underestimate the desire of a third world girl to have a baby with a rich white (or any color) guy. If you have a regular girlfriend you keep, make sure you’re the one responsible for the birth control element of the relationship. Even if you think you can walk away clean and leave the country…you have a responsibility. I don’t think you want to explain to your wife why you’re sending $500 per month to the Philippines or why that African girl keeps showing up on your front door step. Yikes!
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Chapter Fourteen: The Science of Mongering



The Science of Mongering
If you want to get scientific about finding sex in other countries, we can try. Let’s first agree that sex is available in every country in the world. I don’t care where you go. For a price, you can find sex. Let’s not argue about that, OK? I have a friend who begs for me to come with him to Iran where he claims I (an American) will be treated like a king and satisfied sexually beyond my wildest desires. One of these days, I’ll take him up on it. That being said, let’s discuss two areas. The first area of study is estimating the price of a full service sexual experience in any foreign country. The second area of study is the likelihood of you finding a willing and able girlfriend (non-professional) in any foreign country in the world.
Estimating the price of a sexual experience in any country in the world:
First we’ll assume that the price of a really good, full-service, sexual encounter can be based on U.S. standards. That price is about $160. That’s the price you’ll pay for either a really good Private Residence Massage (“PRM”) or the price of an Asian Massage Parlor (“AMP”). Sure you can find it for less and you can pay more but on average, this should put you in the ballpark. Since we’re basing this equation on the U.S. we’ll need a standard by which all countries are measured and per capita income will do nicely. The recent U.S. per capita income (using PPP method) is $37,500.
Its not rocket science to assume that the lower the per capita income, the lower the price for a sexual encounter. Therefore it follows that the U.S. with a per capita income of $37,500 would be more expensive (sexually) than Singapore at $24,180, Mexico at $8,950, China at $4,990, the Philippines at $4,650, and especially Kenya at $1020. Here is a table for the figures:
Country Per Capita Income Full Service Sex PCI Percentage
USA $37,500 $160 100%
Singapore $24,180 $67 64%
Mexico $8,950 $55 24%
China $4,990 $40 13%
Philippines $4,640 $30 12%
Kenya $1,020 $23 3%
Some comments about the table. This is by no means a scientific study but rather a quick look at some facts and figures by a layman (no pun intended). Singapore stands out as a pretty good economy over the rest when compared to the U.S. However, Singapore pricing is still a bargain; why? Well Singapore is pretty liberal in its immigration and visa policies. That means an abundance of working girls from other poorer nations in Asia. Therefore, it is prudent to check out the immigration policies of a country when looking for your sexual vacation. Singapore also has legalized prostitution in some restricted parts of the city. When you have legal prostitution, you also have illegal prostitution…which means price wars. Japan (not listed) is also a country where girls from other poorer Asian nations are welcomed. You will find Filipinas at bargain rates there. China has pretty strict policies regarding visas but the fairly low per capita income and the large population lead to many young women traveling to the big cities to perform their services.
Possibilities of Finding a Girlfriend in a Foreign Country:
Let’s talk about the second subject of finding a girlfriend in a foreign country. I talk about this in most of the Asian chapters of this book. Let me say this; anyone can find a girlfriend by flashing a lot of cash around. The kind of girlfriend I’m talking about is one who will engage with the average traveler on a budget. Remember, in some of these countries, $100 would feed the entire family for a month or more so even the traveler of nominal wealth can be king. How likely is it that you will be able to woo, date, and sleep with a local girl without breaking the bank and without wasting a lot of time and effort? Look at the chart above. In the column labeled PCI Percentage I’ve listed the percentage of the country’s per capita income as compared to the U.S. PCI. I would argue that any country with a PCI Percentage below 25% is highly likely to land you a young, willing, beautiful girl who will most likely sleep with you on (or before) the first date. This girl will often not even ask you for money (but it wouldn’t be a bad idea to help her out in some small way). As you get lower in the PCI Percentage rankings, you’ll find that the girls that you can approach get better and better looking. As you can see, Kenya is at 3% and it is a very target rich environment, believe me. I’ve had girls in Kenya that, if they were in the U.S. instead, would laugh at me if I hit on them. In fact, most of Africa falls under the 5% mark in the PCI Percentage. Other notables at under 10% are Jamaica, Equador, India, Honduras, Vietnam, Cambodia, and Haiti. In the 11-25% range are Morocco, Ukraine, Fiji, Panama, Russia, Malaysia, and Costa Rica.
There is nothing wrong with trying on the over 25% countries like Singapore. It can happen and I tell a story about it in this book (see Freebie in Singapore). However, it’s all about how much time, effort, and money you want to put into it. By all means, if you like the looks of women from Hong Kong, Greece, Spain, or Japan and you’re in it for the long haul…go for it! Just remember there’s a difference between finding a future wife and finding a nice, hot girl to have sex with on short notice.
Authors Note: Hopefully this guideline will give you some foresight into whether to invest some time in dating or go to the normal sex channels. My advice: Do a little of each. Try to make some dates but have a place to fall back if at the end of the evening you’re left with a raging hard-on and an appointment to “meet mommy and daddy” the next night. See my chapter and constant reminders about preparation. Don’t get left hanging by your date and then go out and do something dangerous. Have a phone number or know a place to visit where you don’t need an appointment.
